Word hurt!

Try your best not to speak ill of others. Never tell your child he or she can’t do something. And don’t tell someone you love them if you don’t mean it!

Words are living things, they have the power to inspire, uplift, and to destroy. Think about that before you open your mouth today!

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Responsible

Don’t listen to what people say, instead watch how they respond to a situation. That’s the definition of being responsible. (Response-Able) !

How did she respond to you losing your job? How did he respond when you told him you were pregnant? How did your friends respond when you needed help moving?

And how did your partner respond when he or she was wrong? Did they apologize right away or did they stay angry? A person’s reactions reflects their true character.

Would you get married within a year of Dating?

What’s your advice for people who get married within a year of dating?

It’s not just about getting married too soon, I think you need time to see how your partner handles difference situations. What do you think?

Share your stories about when you realized you didn’t have the same values, attitudes, beliefs, and lifestyle as the person you married!

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What do you think?

Can we agree on at least 5 rules before getting married? Get to know the family (Meeting them is not enough) physical exam results, credit check, background check, and wait until you see how he or she handles a stressful situation.

Let’s not completely romanticizes marriage, there are health and financial repercussions. Times have changed since our parents and grandparents were married. Nowadays, you can’t offered do be blinded by love!- What Do You Think?

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Good morning!

Good Morning!

If you’re fortunate enough to find someone who loves you, understands you, and accepts you, go for it! Don’t allow the attitudes of friends and family to cause you to miss out on a good thing.

People who are happy want you to be happy regardless of the age or race of your partner. But those who are unhappy will always attempt to block your blessing. As the old saying goes, “Misery Loves Company.”

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Stand out in a crowd

We have enough clowns, show-offs and mediocrity in our society. Why not stand out in the crowd by being a person of class and integrity! Do what you say you’re going to do and be consistent!

Dress in a way that exudes confidence and associate with people who reflect your values.

Yes, doing all these things will eliminate most of your friends and make you a target for negativity, but if you endure, it will take you places you never imagined.

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True Love

I often hear people say, “True love is unconditional” but if we’re talking about intimate relationships shouldn’t we have conditions when giving our hearts and bodies to someone?

Sometimes I think we confused dependency with commitment and conditions with standards. Loving someone does not mean, “Stay and put up with his or her non sense no matter what!” It means, I will stand by you as long as you are respectful, supportive, honest, hard working, willing to communicate, responsible, secure, and most importantly, consistent. If not, then I will continue to love you, but I’m ghost, gone, see ya, outta dodge, adios, bye…bye!

There’s no way mature people who love themselves are going to trust their hearts and emotion and financial well being to someone without conditions.

Those who do are not in love; it’s blind faith, desperation, and foolishness.

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